You need to stop this...
When it comes to fat loss you may sometimes find yourself looking for a scapegoat or the excuse. Whether that be bread, sugar, wine, chocolate or dairy.
What you actually need to do is stop 'pussy footing' around the subject and just accept where you are and what you need to do.
XXXX doesn't make you fat, consistently eating in a calorie surplus does.
Removing XXXX from your diet doesn't make you lose weight, consistently creating a calorie deficit does. If removing some or all of the portions of XXXX from your diet help you achieve that then great.
Everything you eat and drink needs to form part of a sustainable diet. If you like bread, eat some. If you like chocolate eat some. I like pizza, but I know I can't eat 3 pizzas everyday and still hit my calorie needs and macro nutrient targets (protein, carb, fat).
I'm not using the term moderation. Moderation is flawed.
If you justify eating 2 bars of chocolate a week because that is your moderation, you then go on to use that reason for having 2 take aways, 3 beers, 1 bag of crisps, 3 bags of sweets...because you see each food as consumed in moderation.
But has it been really? Or are these moderated food calories the ones that are keeping you at your weight or helping that unwanted weight creep on?
It is time to account - asses - change.
When you go on a diet or embark on a new eating regime, you set out with high hopes and all the best expectations in the world. You have your guidelines and what you are looking to remove or reduce. You are raring to go and flick your mindset to “I’m going to do this!”.
Over the first few weeks you may find that things are going great, your new meal plan and your snacks are flowing well and you are feeling positive.
Over the week you eat well, your new meal plan and your snacks are flowing well and you are feeling positive.
You start each week with a great food shop. Your meals are planned and you have prepped your lunches for the week, or at least got your ideas in mind. You find that your breakfasts are great and filling and each day you avoid the office biscuits and colleague birthday treats.
It’s that time of year where you start to make changes. You say to yourself “Right, that’s it! New year, new me” and “I’m definitely doing it this time!”. But that last statement alone says a lot... “...this time!” It shows that you may have tried it already or that you have tried something similar in the past.
Whether it is the 1st or 3rd time you are going to shift some excess pounds, join the gym or start running (insert goal here), you need to know your WHY. Without knowing and recognising your WHY you are unlikely to sustain the change over the longer term. If the going gets tough, your WHY will be there to steady the ship and to keep you pushing through. Your WHY is the reason you are making the change. It could be something personal or something external, but you need to find it. It might take some time but once you have it, grab onto it and don’t let go. Write it down. Think of all the different ways in which you can build towards it. Make a plan. Do little things that will lead towards it. A house is made brick by brick, you don’t have to build it all in a day.
We also live in the real world though, so you have to be realistic and honest. January is generally cold, wet and dark. The gyms are busy, your being told to not eat this and eat that. Some days you have a bad sleep, some days you are stuck at work or the kids are ill...things happen and life gets in the way! But if you have your WHY this all starts to look clearer. You get over your obstacles and your excuses because you can see what is at the end.
The biggest challenge standing in front of you is you. You are the one who needs to want to change. Yes, you may have support, guidance and help along the way. But without you, your WHY doesn’t exist.
You need to be SMART about things.
S- Specific -
S- I am going to lose 14lbs
M- I will measure my weight now and then each two weeks.
A- I will achieve this as I have a plan in place
R- It is realistic as it still puts me within a healthy weight range for my height and age
T- I will do this within 8 weeks time
This is where I do suggest writing your WHY down. Visualising it and reiterating it to yourself will reinforce it. Another good idea is a collage, a whiteboard, a notebook...whether it is a collection of pictures, notes or articles to get you inspired, it all helps.
You have the power each day to move a little bit closer to your goals (and feeling awesome). Write or say out loud 2 things right now that make you feel good about yourself. It could be your dedication to something, the smarter breakfast choice you made this morning, the skills you have in a particular field or a goal you have achieved in your life so far.
You are an achiever! You have done it before, you can do it again and again.
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When it comes to eating around your training sessions, let's try and keep things simple.
Ideally you should be looking to have a full balanced meal, including carbohydrates, fat and protein (20-40g approx) in a 3-4 hour window of your training.
If this doesn't work for you everytime, don't stress, just do what you can and if you feel hungry before your training then of course have something light, such as a banana, handful of nuts, even a couple of squares of dark chocolate, as working out hungry doesn’t always feel great.
If fat loss is your goal then over the course of the week (I like to use a week rather than focussing on 1 day) you need to be in a calorie deficit. You need to expend more calories than you consume. This can be just a small amount, 200-300 calories a day. The small deficits will help in achieving long term fat loss, hunger pangs and overall adherence to your change in diet or activity levels.
If you are happy where you are in terms of weight or body composition then stick with what you are doing and tweak when you need to.
Here is some bones of the matter. The ISSN (International Society of Sports Nutrition) has seen evidence that a protein intake of between 1.4-2g per kg of bodyweight for individuals who participate in resistance training is optimal when looking to build or maintain muscle. This depends on how many times a week you train and to what intensity. This is also noticeably higher than the Reference Nutrient Intake of .75g per kg bodyweight but, this is not based on someone who trains.
What does this mean?
Weight = 80KG
80x1.6(taking it in the middle range)=128
128g protein daily
Split over 3-5 meals, roughly 25g in each
This could be achieved through:
Regular resistance training plus protein consumption helps you build muscle. The more lean muscle mass you have the more efficient you are...in essence you can consume more calories relative to your bodyweight as you need to fuel more muscle.
We need to talk...
Most of us know what we need to do to improve our health/weight/fitness levels. We just need that umph to get us going. But let's cover some truths about where to start and what might be going wrong.
Are you gaining weight?
You are consistently consuming over your needed calorie intake for your given bodyweight.
Is your weight fairly static?
You are consistently consuming enough calories to maintain your current weight.
Are you losing weight?
You are consistently producing a negative calorie balance through consuming fewer calories or by exercising.
What's the best exercise for getting rid of your belly fat?
You cannot choose where your fat is broken down from. You need to create a calorie deficit through food or exercise to reduce body fat. To get a "flat" stomach you need to focus on plank progressions and roll out type exercises.
What's the best exercise to do for fat loss?
Choose exercise that you enjoy doing and do more of it. Building muscle does help improve a whole host of things but just get moving first.
My friend is on the "XYZ" diet will it work for me?
It depends. Any diet aims to leave you in a calorie deficit. If you can handle the lack of whatever food is being removed then it may work in the short to medium term.
My friend has stopped eating "Insert food type or product here" and lost weight, what do you think?
Your friend has cut calories. The majority of the time when you cut a food group or product from your routine you don't replace it. The result is you are consistently eating less calories (see point 3 above). It isn't the lack of that particular food that has caused the weight loss it is the lack of calories.
How can I tone up?
Toning is the reduction of body fat combined with having muscle mass. So in other words you want to lose fat and gain muscle. This is a tricky conundrum as gaining muscle requires extra calories and losing fat requires fewer calories. By using resistance training (i.e kettlebells, bodyweight, weights) you can create a calorie deficit through exercise and that will help create muscle tone.
I don't want to use weights and get too big?
This will not happen. I will say it again, this will not happen. It takes years of programmed training and a spot on diet to get "big". How many times have you actually heard anyone say they got so big and muscly they had to stop going to gym?
This will not happen.
Anything I've missed please ask away or send me an email/message and look out for similar posts soon.
I love to learn and continue to development my skills and knowledge in health and fitness. One area that I have gained a greater understanding is pre and post-natal exercise prescription. Being a husband to a wife of two c-sections, the qualification seemed a perfect fit and a great addition to help many women on their road to birth and recovery.
The course went through a logical sequence, going from explaining what happens to a woman from conception to post-partum. I won't go into detail on everything, but here are the key things I learned and took away from the syllabus.
- Hormonal and physiological changes that occur and how these change over each trimester. The hormone relaxin plays a big part in what happens to women during pregnancy. One of its roles is to prepare and allow the body to adapt to a growing baby and then to assist in the delivery of said baby. It allows the uterus, pelvic and pubis area to expand and change. Although this is targeted at the joints and ligaments that need this change it can affect other parts of the body and this is where range of motion, stretching and exercise adaptation will be needed to ensure that damage isn't done. Along with these can come side effects such as sickness, nausea and change in appetite. These will all affect how a women is feeling and may lead to amendments in training schedules.
- The importance of pelvic floor muscles, exercise, and posture at all stages.
- The benefits and risks of exercise during pregnancy. This was covered fairly well and a large number of benefits were explained; although a few risks were mentioned including hypoxia (reduced blood flow to the foetus) and supine hypotensive syndrome (lack of blood flow to the mother’s heart), at the end of the element, it did place a big caveat on the information saying that there is no evidence that links these to exercise during pregnancy but as with many things they are risks and common sense would say we don't want to increase their chances during pregnancy.
-Nutrition over the trimesters. This section of the course covers which foods to avoid during pregnancy and is still valid from recent readings. It states to not eat raw fish, raw meat or pate along with other things.
- Exercise prescription. Here the course content covered the different elements that are needed to be considered during the initial stages through to recovery. It explains the mechanical effects pregnancy has on the body and discusses what to look out for in clients to help determine their level of recovery. Some simple observations and adaptations would be that as the baby grows and the woman becomes larger at the front, by around the end of the first trimester exercises in the prone (face down) and supine (face up) positions should be reduced or minimised. This would probably naturally occur as many would feel uncomfortable in those positions. Changing from elliptical-trainer to recumbent bike; this simple change in equipment choice later in pregnancy can help ease or prevent pubis synthesis pain (pain around the pelvis). Also the need to stop all resistance training during pregnancy is false. I would agree it is not the time to take up extreme kettlebells or begin heavy Olympic lifting but, maintaining your gym routine and keeping active is key to a healthy you and baby. You can still achieve a very effective training programme whilst pregnant whether that be strength training, running, swimming or boot-camping. It just means that the PT or instructor must amend and adapt the training to suit you (which should be their job, right?) and still allow you to swing the kettlebell and lift the barbell until further changes need to be made.
- Recovery. This is different for everyone and does need a doctors sign off usually after the 6 week mark. But in terms of exercise planning during the recovery, it is almost the pre stage in reverse. Your goal is to slowly get back to where you were before giving birth and then gradually rebuild your strength, range of motion and fitness through layering of exercise prescription.
APPLICATION AND IMPLEMENTATION
Most of the mums who have attended Get Fit have joined around 12-24 months after their last baby. This isn't to say that they could not have started sooner, but it seems to be a time when they have finally got time and a lifestyle that allows them to get out and get their body back to full strength. It is this time gap that can also present some issues as most have done minimal exercise and although have recovered are not back to where they were before the birth in terms of fitness levels and/or core repair.
For me, there are two areas that I ask them to focus on: the core and glutes. I still also recommend kegel and PFM exercises in most cases as a lot of the ladies just weren't aware of what to do in the initial stages after having their babies. I explain neutral positioning and how to try to involve this in everyday life and throughout the sessions. Most of the exercises we do are compound exercises, so involve many muscles. I stay away from crunches and sit ups which suits quite well with postpartum women and many clients to be honest. A lot also complain of weak or bad backs, so creating a strong frame and base is where I like to start.
I use plank progressions, hollowing and leg raise progressions to target the core. This varies person to person in terms of their level of recovery including diastasis recti (separation of the abs) and doming (a dome shape occurring when sitting up at around your belly button). From the outset I try to get them to strengthen their glutes through various exercises including squats, goblet squats, step ups and kettlebell swings. If they strengthen their glutes it will ultimately help create good posture and fix the lower back issues.
For me its all about 3 factors:
- Being realistic in terms of your starting point after the birth (remember your level of fitness before the birth).
- Start early (during all trimesters and within days of giving birth) and be consistent with kegel and PFM exercises
- Keep your nutrition on track; during all trimesters try your best to fuel your baby’s growth yet keep your own health in check (this can be only be a few extra hundred calories, you are not actually eating for two adults).
So to the 3 P's; Planning, Pre-natal and post-natal. You could class it as pre but, I honestly think that even if people are thinking and planning to have a baby then they should start to focus on preparing their body as early as possible, that way they are in the best starting position once things like morning sickness or hormonal changes kick in. Every health advantage you can gain will help not only in the pregnancy but in the actual birth and recovery. The pre-natal is all about monitoring how you change and adapting to how you feel and what is happening with your visible signs and also things like your recovery, your heart rate and how you feel during your exercise sessions. A simple tip here is to keep a log, not only of the times, weights etc...but the way you felt throughout and after your sessions. Then as things change you can see for yourself and realise that it is just part of the amazing process.
Stay strong mummas!
When you decide to do something different with your life - make a change - improve yourself. You get people, who all of sudden seem to care how many times you train, investigate the breakfast you are eating and enquire how much wine you have had this week.
These people are your duvets. They are trying to keep you where you are, snuggled up in your comfort zone where you have been for so long. They are more than likely the first ones to make fun of your new lifestyle changes, suggest that you won’t keep it up, try and persuade you to come out and leave the training for today. But if the truth be told, they want to be like you. Some people don’t like to see others succeed, especially if if they are accomplishing a goal they want to achieve, i.e. fat loss.
We have all had them. It might be someone at work who questions why you are not eating the team doughnuts, it might be a friend who can’t believe you are lifting weights because they make you ‘too big’ (not true by the way). It may even be a partner who sees your training time or your changes as a threat or a dig at themselves.
But you need to be selfish. You need to realise that you are doing this for you, no one else. If you start to do it for external reasons you are less likely to maintain any change in the long term.
Don’t be convinced by the duvets. This is the right thing to do and you will succeed. Yes it may feel uncomfortable at the start, but that is where you have been for so long, in your comfort zone.
Whether it is training in the park or eating a better lunch...screw them! You are the one who is doing it. The duvets are in awe, they are jealous, they want to be out there with you. They want to be making the better choices, but you know what, they can’t yet, they are either not motivated enough or they just aren’t ready to commit.
Who cares...you are achieving...be the one that everyone talks about...be the one actually using their active wear...soon when they realise that it works and that you are not on a health kick, they will start to ask genuine questions and start their own journey. But until then screw them!
You deserve to be the best you, you can be. Why do you have to settle for feeling “ok” or “average” everyday? Spoiler alert...you don’t!
Let’s get this straight here and now. I am not saying that the way you are, is bad, not good enough or inferior in anyway. But why would you choose to not make the most of everything you have. By implementing change now you can move towards awesomeness.
Think of it as a spectrum:
Average 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 Awesome
Be honest, where do you feel you are most days. Write it down. I’ll be honest too, I would put myself on a 7 most days. Somedays I feel awesome and somedays I feel more towards average. What I do know is though, is the days that I am on point of with my food, have slept better or have trained I straight away start to move towards awesome. I find this also applies for me when I’m focussing on something new or about to embark on a project.
You have the power each day to move a little bit closer to awesome. Write or say out loud 2 things right now that make you feel good about yourself. It could be your dedication to something, the smarter breakfast choice you made this morning, the skills you have in a particular field or a goal you have achieved in your life so far. You are an achiever! You have done it before, you can keep on doing it.
If everyday or every week you choose to implement a change that is sustainable then think about how all of these would add up over a year, let alone a lifetime.
Quite simply, I’m on a mission to get you from being #averagetoawesome in any way I can.
When we talk about the ‘core’ most of us think of loads and loads of sit ups, crunches, ab cradles and a sweaty, tight 6 pack.
What we should be thinking about is a group of muscles that work together to give us stability, strength, protection and assist us to be mobile in many directions.
The Rectus abdominus (RA)
The famous 6 pack muscle. Its function is to flex the trunk (pull our torso towards our feet).
What is the pack effect? Simply it is bands of connective tissue crossing over the RA. The level of definition and how much you see them is determined by the amount of fat lying on top and the size of the muscle pushing through.
The Transverse Abdominis (TVA)
The TVA is a corset type muscle which surrounds the whole midsection. It is the muscle that we draw in when we are trying to hold our belly in. It is the key muscle that is activated when we perform the plank position. Place your hands on either sides of your waist, inline with your belly button, cough and hold. That is your TVA. When we come to lifting heavy stuff, bending, jumping, running, if we can activate the TVA we become more stable and help take the load off the lower back.
The Internal Obliques (IO)
This helps with compression of the trunk and is an accessory in breathing.
It also assists in rotation of the trunk.
The External Obliques (EO)
The EO are towards the sides of the torso and help with rotation and bending to the side. They are part of the ‘V’ shape seen on the lower part of the abs.
A series of small muscles that connect the vertebrae. They travel nearly all the way along the spine. They are used for rotation, sideways flexion and raising the torso. These are designed to help stabilise the spine. But unfortunately these muscles are the ones you may feel when you have lower back pain. Imagine these small muscles taking the strain of everyday life. When we engage and use all the muscles listed above and the glutes, it takes the strain off the multifidi and makes the larger muscles work in sync to move us and any loads.
The Erector Spinae (ES)
The ES is actually a group of muscles that are on either side of the spine. They are the thicker muscles that you can see and feel (if developed) at the base of the spine. If you lie on the floor face down (supine) and extend your torso upwards, this will engage and exercise the ES. Along with this extension the ES also helps maintain correct spine curvature and assist in bending sideways.
It sounds like a lot, but by implementing good practice in everyday activities and performing lots of small sets of bodyweight exercises such as planks, pelvic floor contractions, leg raises, cycles and torso raises you will be on your way to a stronger, healthier core.
"Dave, this health and fitness stuff is easy. Do you know that this week I've cooked and prepped all my food, sorted the family’s snacks and meals, trained 5 times, slept really well each night, had no stress at work, haven't had any unexpected bills, been fairly active all day, had some fun and laughed each day, ticked all the items off my to do list and relaxed in the rest of my spare time."
SAID NO ONE EVER!!!
On your journey to a more great you - whether your goal is related to training, lifestyle, general health, getting fitter, leaner, stronger, smaller or bigger. Life gets in the way. Life is busy. The honest truth is though it is down to you to do something about it. Whichever element you want to change, it is your responsibility - you are responsible and accountable for your actions or lack thereof. If you don't want any of these things above then surely you owe it to yourself to go and get the things you do want.
Lets think about why you want to change something in your lifestyle, really think of the reason. I enjoy challenging myself. The reason I choose to change something is down to the goal I have in mind. I go through phases of improving my sleep patterns, being super disciplined with my training or really closely monitoring what I'm eating. But they all lead towards my main long term goal which is to enjoy time with my family. I want to be active and enjoy the best times I can with my family for as long as possible. I want to motivate as many people as possible to make positive changes in their lives as well and I also want my children to see that working hard, in any context, is a good thing and that feeling uncomfortable yet keeping on going has a positive outcome. I enjoy getting stronger and pushing myself physically, technically and mentally.
We are a busy world. Always on call to our notifications, always trying to do things faster, save time, yet I still here people say that they can't find the time. If if all this 'stuff' is here to make our lives better then how come we still can't STOP - SWITCH OFF - LOOK AROUND - AND TAKE IT ALL IN.
What's your why? Why are you doing what you are doing? If you are looking to achieve something I mentioned in the opening paragraphs then take a minute and figure out how you are going to get it. It might take some time, some planning but you can do it. If you don't look after you then how can you look after anyone else.
I've said it before, but start small. I'm not telling you to quit your job, get rid of your smart phone, find an hour everyday to train, but YOU have to do something. Make a better food choice a few times a week, get out of the office 3 times a day, get to bed in a calm state as regularly as you can, go for walk to clear your head rather than staring at a screen. once you make regular changes those actions turn into habits and those habits become part of you.
Accept the challenge and challenge yourself.
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